Does this sound familiar?
By many measures, you’re a successful start-up. You have fewer than 10 employees, but you’ve been hiring fairly steadily since you launched a year or so ago. If you’re not making a profit, you’re at least breaking even—which is better than most one-year-old startups can say.
But not all things are going well. You don’t yet have the money for a dedicated human resources manager, so personnel administration is spread among the team. Most of the time, the honor system works for things like PTO, and job reviews are handled when you have a spare hour—though seldom at regular intervals.
Still, there are no team complaints and, therefore, little reason to change.
Then, you hit a snag. A conflict erupts between two of your employees. Arguments mount and tensions escalate until both of them come to you separately with the same concern: “So-and-so is disrupting the work environment and antagonizing me. Can you address this?”
You’re the CEO, CFO, COO, and Marketing Director all rolled into one. You don’t have time to deal with human resource conflicts. What do you do?
1. Make time for your team
You may think you hold a lot of flags as the owner of your own company, but what’s more important than the team that makes your success possible? Your commitment is, first and foremost, to their success. So, make time to deal with this.
Ideally, you have built in meetings scheduled with your team—such as weekly staff meetings or monthly check-ins. If this is not a good time to address tensions, then schedule a group meeting with the concerned employees for an hour, or with each one for half an hour.
2. Ask your employees to define the problem
You weren’t trained as an HR rep, so you may think your role in conflict resolution is limited. But that’s not true. Most of what you need to do is guide the employees to their own resolution, and that starts with defining the problem. This is often best done in separate meetings with each employee involved, but can be done in a group meeting as well, depending on the severity/nature of the conflict.
Let everyone clearly express—constructively and without antagonizing others—what they see as the core problem. Step in to moderate as needed and ask for clarification. Specifics are important, so be sure you get the details of what’s ACTUALLY happening and not what employees THINK is happening.
3. Encourage your employees to resolve the problem on their own
In most cases, this works well. Resolution can happen when you’re present (if time allows), or it can be done on the employees’ own time. But if each employee fully understands the nature of the problem, then finding a resolution will be easier.
Suggest that they meet together offsite over lunch, or in a neutral space like the office conference room. Nobody should have a “home field” advantage in these discussions.
Encourage them to reference the standing employee handbook if there is question about office policy.
Also, set parameters. If the concerned employees can’t come to a resolution in a set amount of time (~30 minutes), then tell them to bring the issue back to you with a CLEAR explanation of WHY they could not reach a resolution. The collaboration required to define the continuing disagreement is a not-so-subtle way of encouraging positive interaction.
Finally, insist on diplomacy and civility. Remind each individual that they are a professional, and that as a representative of your company, you expect them to act accordingly—communicating clearly but diplomatically while always respecting fellow employees.
4. If the conflict comes back to you, make a quick decision
Pushing the conflict off on to other employees or stalling is not good leadership. At this point in the resolution process, you should know exactly what’s going on and how best to resolve it.
Take action quickly, communicate it clearly, and model the same diplomacy and respect you ask of your employees. Once a resolution has been reached, make it known that future disruptive conflict will have consequences.
Remember: A strong leader sees all sides of a conflict before making a decision, is conscious of his/her bias in reaching a resolution, and respects the individuals concerned. Knowing all variables and the desired end point will go a long way to facilitating an effective, positive resolution.
5. Document the conflict and resolution
He said-she said banter can haunt you as a busy CEO, so don’t let it. Record your interactions in conflict resolution situations so you can always point to concrete evidence of employee interactions and actions taken toward resolution. Store these in employee files for ongoing reference.
6. Maintain ongoing communication training with your employees, and model that communication for your team
Communications training doesn’t have to be drawn out. It can be as simple as a 5-minute, quick-hit tip or story offered during weekly staff meetings. MindTools offers some dynamic (and short) games that you can use to promote positive work interaction.
Let your employees know your communication expectations, and model that behavior yourself. If you’re not living up to those expectations, invite them to call you out—in a diplomatic way that encourages constructive communication in tense situations. The same should also be true of your employees; consequences should be clearly defined and guidelines enforced for improper communication.
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